Why Men Love Bitches

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A friend of mine introduced me to Sherry Argov book- why men love bitches, where she explains all about women and what frustrates women about men.The title “why men love bitches” and the content address what many women think, but don’t say It’s a relationship book that brings out the real life of what any woman goes through. The way she explains and her choice of words makes it so palatable and sets the mood. When I first read this book, I totally got to understand some facts about relationships. Every woman for sure has felt embarrassed by appearing too needy or clingy to a man. Every woman has had that man that has pursued her, only to lose interest the minute she gave in, she says in the book. That right there got me thinking about the relationships that have been in and out because of loss of interest. We often love the thrill of the chase, and when we women finally give in, holla the men are on another hunt. Every woman has felt the pain of being taken for granted. In the book she explains how men always want to feel in control and why and how you can use that to your advantage. The book taught me of so many skills that one has to chose and bring out the most of her feminine and sexual powers. You don’t have to be always there whenever he needs you, don’t be a doormat but be a dream girl a girl he will always strive to win even if it’s means for just coffee. On the feminine powers, be a complete doll, flower on the outside and steel on the inside. Being all nice to men will only lead you to being a doormat, have a presence of mind that is not swept off by the romantic gestures or fantasy, always know what you want in life and in a man. If he decides to take you out and you finally agree to it but he ain’t fun or a good company, you have a power of choice to just end the dinner date for some reason and go have a good time somewhere else. Sherry Argov explains of being a lover not a mother, yes, we all show tender, love and care to people we adore, to people we love dearly but you should learn the difference of being a lover and a mother. Don’t be so much into his life into what he does, give him space and don’t be nagging, it doesn’t work. Every woman needs to be in control of her life, it’s yours not his, let him book that dinner date in advance, your time and attention are valuable. Act like a prize and you’ll turn him into a believer. Don’t put everything on hold for him, he shouldn’t come before your basic necessities. Be financially stable don’t let a man look down upon you, he will resent you. When a woman doesn’t give in quickly and doesn’t appear decile, it becomes more stimulating to obtain her. From the book I learned of the principles a woman should keep; maintaining your independence, don’t pursue him, be mysterious, leave him wanting, don’t let him see your sweat, remain in control all time, maintain your sense of humor, play a high value of yourself, be passionate about other things other than him and finally treat your body like a finely tuned machine, oh girl, it does sound thrilling. All these and more I learned from this book and sure who doesn’t want to be a dream girl rather than a doormat.

From the best seller, Sherry Argov, Why Men Love Bitches.